Sunday, November 04, 2007

The meeting....

Hi again.... Well, yesterday was the day that I went over to Dearie's house. :P
Initially, Dearie thought that I would just come over to his house after his colleagues left for his so-called 'open house'. But a few days before yesterday, his dad told him to ask me to come over earlier to be there too. Oh how my heart was beating so fast 'dup-dup-dup'.

So yesterday after work, I went home first to get changed. Then Dearie came and fetched me, my dad asked Dearie to drive. I was soooo nervous, sooo scared, that my hands were so cold and sweaty. In the lift, I was reluctant to leave the lift. How funny as I recall that now... Dearie practically had to pull me away...

At his house, Alhamdulillah all was fine, his mum talked to me. I was coughing a lot and his mum asked if I was sick etc. To cut the story short, his dad helped check on me, and saw that someone had put 'something' on me aka something like black magic. That is the reason why I get sick always. So his dad called my dad, and soon after that, Dearie and I went to fetch my family and all of us headed back to Dearie's house. There his dad helped me and Alhamdulillah all is ok now. But I will need to go there again for 2nd round of treatment. After that, his dad talked about me and Dearie's relationship with my dad.

There's no need to elaborate on the actual talk, but the main points are that Dearie's parents accept me as I am, only that we are not ready to get married now, because of our financial situation, and also because Dearie is going to be taking up his degree course, and insyaAllah me too. Well, that's not a problem to me because I too am not ready to settle down now. What me and Dearie are planning is to settle down when we both are really ready, which will be in 3 years time around there. No point rushing. So for now we just praying that things will continue to go smoothly for us, as always.

The funny thing is, I recall what Dearie's dad said, my family and his family has already become 1 big family, only that it is not yet official. It will become a dream come true, in a few years time, insya Allah. Remember Dearie, what ur dad said to me, you are my bakal suami (future hubby), insya Allah. *smiles*

Let's rewind to last week, our Hari Raya outing... Me and Dearie and my friends...

Me and Dearie, my friend took this picture for us. Lady boss and her driver. Hehe, just kidding love!!

Us at Kartini's house. Everyone met up here....

Next at Dearie's house....
At yours truly.... :)





At Fida's place... Hers was the last house so we took quite a lot pics there.

Me and Dearie. Future hubby and wife, insya Allah... Pray for us yeah... :)