Met Dearie and received very happy news!!! Syukur....
He said earlier in the day before we met, he had a long talk with his parents. Take note that even after being with him for 5 years, his parents don't totally accept me being with him, because he is not totally stable yet....
But.... his dad opened up and his mum realized the truth, and so they accepted me!! During the period when my late mum was still in the hospital, Dearie's dad came to help make my late mum better. It's a long story... But at that time, my dad talked to Dearie's dad and told him of how he reali liked Dearie and wished that Dearie would in fact be a part of my family, be his son-in-law. And Dearie's dad said that insya-Allah, if me and Dearie are fated to be together, in 2 or 3 years time our time will come. Dearie's dad told Dearie and his mum about that conversation, and they knew that in fact my dad won't force Dearie to marry me so early if in fact we both are not ready financially. Dearie's dad told him that he liked me too and will give his blessings for us. And......
Dearie's parents invited me to their house!! That's the part that scares me... I mean, I remember clearly how they treated me the first time I was there alone, i.e.when Dearie wanted to introduce me for the first time. That was 4 years ago!! The year after that, during Hari Raya, I was scared to even step in the house, and I was practically shivering inside to salam his mum. His dad noticed that and voiced that out earlier in the day just now too. That is why for the last 2 Hari Raya(s) I did not go visiting at dearie's place. Now, when the time comes to go to his place, I hope i can lose my fear. Hehe...
I just hope and pray that this time they truly accept and won't change their minds again. And that I hope to get a mother's love, from Dearie's mum. :)
Here now are my pictures with Dearie!!!
Sweet!! Both me and Dearie loved this picture that both of us used this picture as wallpaper on our hp. :)
I like this picture too!!! The 2 pictures were taken yesterday before we went out for Hari Raya.. At my home.
And today, we went to the career fair at Suntec. I am serious about getting a new job. Really can't stand the work at my place now. And might be, insya Allah, if i can afford it, I might take up a degree course in psychology with SIM. I realy wish to further my studies before getting married, so if I am married, I can focus on my marriage life. Hehe.... Ok, that's all for now!
